Author: Rochelle L.

Hi! Why does the news of someone being controversial or competitive automatically trigger negative thoughts?  Perhaps controversial and competitive people cause unease in others.  But, why? Does having either of these traits automatically relegate someone to being unpleasant?  Is it because many people assume these types of people are troublemakers?  It shouldn’t. Competitive people like to win. That… Continue reading What are Good Reasons To Be Controversial and Competitive?

Hi! When change is working its way into your life, it shows itself in many different ways. Sometimes you see periodic glimpses of better days to come. Those sneak peeks ignite a push within you. Other times you go through pain that nudges you to realize change is necessary. The great thing about these opposite… Continue reading What Quantum Leaps Do You Need To Make To Be Happy?

Hi! Why is it so easy for some people to receive help; while others have such difficulty?  How is it that some can easily take new routes home with the same intensity as those who struggle with taking alternate routes?  Why is it so uncomfortable for one person to accept someone's idea; while another receives… Continue reading Are You Open to the Pros and the Cons of Flexibility?

Hi! When you come out of challenging situations, what is the aftermath?  Do the experiences that frustrate and hurt you leave you with an overwhelming "Why?"  What about when someone tries to cause you harm; physically, emotionally, financially or spiritually?  How do those situations resonate in your mind?  Do they leave a distaste in your mouth?  Do… Continue reading Aren’t You Glad?

Hi, Why is the subject of love so controversial; especially during certain times of the year; such as Christmas and New Years?  Many people relate to the mixture of strong emotional statements that writers coin about love.  Some write about the joy of finding someone who gives them a reason to smile.  Yet some write… Continue reading What Does Love Have To Do With It?

Hi! There's an old idiom that says, "A picture is worth a thousand words."  But, the question is, "How many words does a picture paint?  Or rather, "How many words does a picture paint specifically to you?" Have you ever looked at a picture and it told you a story or it reminded you of a situation that… Continue reading How Many Words Does A Picture Paint?

Hi! Do you ever wonder why a particular event or series of events happen in your life?  You don't only wonder why they happen; but why do they happen when they happen.  I guess we all have been there.  But the questions yet remain, "Why this?  Why now?"   Think about it.  What good, not so… Continue reading Why This? Why Now?

Hi! How often do you take time out to play?  I guess you're wondering: "What kind of question is this?  You're joking right?"  Or are you thinking, "Play?!?  Ain't nobody got time for that?"  If so, "Why not?" STOP!!  Before you click the exit button; answer this question: Do people often say, "I was just… Continue reading How Often Do You Take Time Out To Play?

Hi Do you believe pain has a purpose?  Even though, we don't always initially see the purpose; there is one.  Someone coined the phrase, "The most beautiful things, messages, speeches, books, etc. will come out of pain."  At the risk of sounding a bit oxymoronic, here's a thought.  Though I can personally relate to this… Continue reading How Does Pain Help You?

Hi! How can some people step out and do things that are rarely done by others?These are the type who have natural talents that enable them to come up with the most cutting-edge ideas.  For instance, I've always been intrigued by the minds of attention grabbing television commercial's writers.  Every time I watch such commercials, I think,… Continue reading Are You A Game Changer?